Break Free from old patterns — anchor your life in True Freedom
Self-Leadership coaching for men ready to stop numbing and start living
You Feel Stuck…
The scrolling, the drinking, the hustling,
the endless ways we escape-
it numbs the pain for a moment,
but it never lasts.
You’re not broken.
These are survival strategies —
ways you’ve learned to cope.
They’re just not working anymore.
It’s time for something different.
Let’s Find Your Path
100 Day Journey
In 14 weeks, we’ll rebuild body and mind from the ground up — dissolving old stories and destructive patterns, restoring strength that holds steady under pressure, and establishing habits that anchor you in clarity, trust, and freedom.
50 Day Focus
For men who are grounded but restless for more — a new edge, a vision to chase, or a challenge that won’t yield. In eight weeks, we’ll sharpen direction, align energy, and break through what’s been stuck so momentum can flow again.
Open Path
This space moves at your pace. Bring what’s alive now — a tension, a transition, a question — and be met with responsive, honest care. Together we’ll track what matters most and keep you aligned without pressure, force, or pretense.
How I can Help
I don’t believe in quick fixes or endless willpower.
Through coaching, you’ll learn to:
Rework your habits.
Trade pain for care with systems that fit your life.
Renew your mind.
Build new pathways that offer steadiness and clarity.
Rebuild your relationships.
Heal your connections so they become honest & whole.
Reclaim your life.
Awaken the vision inside you and build a life anchored
in trust, clarity, and freedom.
This isn’t about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about awakening what’s already alive —
and letting it lead.
The Truth Can Set You Free
Myth
“I should be able to fix this on my own”
Truth
“Going solo isn’t the same as being strong”
Path
Release the burden — open to trust
Myth
“I’ll change when I hit rock bottom”
Truth
“Losing it all isn’t the same as waking up”
Path
Loosen the grip — open to clarity
Myth
“I’m functioning — I’m good”
Truth
“Acting fine isn’t the same as being real”
Path
Drop the act — open to freedom
About Me
I grew up in Oregon, shaped by the outdoors and the grit of wrestling at the Division I level. After college, I spent nearly a decade as a pastor and in social work, walking with people through crisis and recovery.
At the same time, I wrestled with my own addictive patterns — the numbing strategies I leaned on to get by. They offered relief for a moment, but never brought the steadiness I longed for.
Everything changed when I discovered Internal Family Systems (IFS). This approach helped me heal deep pain, release shame, and begin living from a grounded sense of strength and truth.
Today, as a certified Self-Leadership Coach and IFS facilitator, I walk with men as they turn from old survival strategies and move toward a steadier life — rooted in trust, clarity, and freedom.
FAQs
Common questions men ask when they’re feeling stuck, depressed, tired of numbing or searching for help.
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No. Many men begin when life looks “fine” but feels restless. Men’s self-leadership coaching helps both men in crisis and those simply feeling stuck.
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Therapy looks back to heal the past. Life coaching for men builds forward — offering practical steps, clarity, and freedom today.
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That’s normal. Most men try willpower or numbing first. This men’s coaching program works because it creates steady change with real support. You can start with a free 30-minute men’s coaching session to see how it fits.
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No. You set the pace. My coaching style meets you where you are — whether it’s one habit or a bigger challenge.
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Yes. Every coaching session is private unless you choose to share it.
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Yes. I’m based in The Hague, Netherlands, and I offer online coaching sessions for men worldwide.
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That’s why I offer a free 30-minute session — a chance to talk, ask questions, and see if this is the right fit.
Contact Evan
coaching@evanhendrix.com
(541)316-0016